Reasons to write......

So often we decide to tackle a blog to convey our daily struggles be it through   comedic writing, or we take on subjects with a deeper definition.

We write these blogs to illustrate our thoughts in words. Some times they can be so unpredictable or serve as a simple eloquent message and yet again there are some blogs that take on  an accurately  written memoir that are waiting to be played out....

We read so many stories about life's happenings centering on some very specific areas  there is always that one person who enters into your life whether it be through coincidence or they were meant to be you for them, and they for you.

We who have gone through loss in our lives and we who ourselves have been touched by an unforgiving illness that is so relentless you question yourself asking "Where is God"? Where is there a God that is not supposed to allow the kind of suffering we see or know..Of course there is no answer to the question because we simply don't know!

It's important to know about the good parts too not just the pain. We witness and sometime  see what the body is capable of withstanding. There is immense pain and suffering but still there is a goodness that exists..

A predominance of extreme courage which  becomes an inspirational example of  human  spirit. The resilience to adversity

Cancer is an ugly ugly disease, there is no way in trying to "Pretty-Up" the devastation it causes.It rears its head in the most unexpected ways We lose so many mother's sister's aunt's uncles brothers fathers.

Inevitably all we want is that sense of normalacy, just to return to regular conversation without that "word" being used

Have you ever asked yourself when your time has finally arrived, how do you want to be remembered? Will it be about the money you made or lost, a book you wrote,- or should have finished!  Places you have seen? Or is it about that one person you  touched and may have changed them forever? Is there a special person in your life that has changed you. I don't mean on the Romantic end I mean day to day, someone that has brought meaning into your life?